Sasee Magazine

This month’s “Woman of Character” was nominated by Nancy Capp, owner of Gold’s Gym in Myrtle Beach. The following is an excerpt from her nomination letter:

I met Barbara Timmons when she started working out at Gold’s – where she never misses a workout! Barbara’s daughter, Jessica, is handicapped, and I was so impressed with Barbara’s ability to handle the many challenges that come with raising a special needs child – and this remarkable woman is a single working parent! Jessica became a favorite of all of us when Barbara started bringing her along when she came to work out. We started taking care of Jessica in the afternoons and on Saturdays when Barbara’s job changed, and soon found out that Barbara takes care of everyone around her. We would receive delicious home-cooked meals daily when we were helping her with Jessica. And, she does this for everyone. Barbara just makes everything wonderful! She has not had it easy, but continues to give so much to others. Barbara Timmons is a true woman of character.

A long-time Myrtle Beach resident, Barbara works for Seaside Rentals and handles guest services as well as some of the marketing. She is involved with Christ United Methodist Church and loves to work out at Gold’s Gym, where she has met some of her closest friends.

Barbara, you have raised Jessica on your own – what was the hardest part of raising a special needs child?

I was only 17 when I became pregnant, and even though I didn’t get any support from my family, I knew I was going to raise my child myself. Jessica’s father was not involved, and my home life was very unstable. I stayed home until I graduated high school, and then I moved here to attend college. I worked two jobs and went to school at night while I took care of Jessica. I have never taken any government assistance; I have always been determined to do things on my own.

Jessica was six months old when I found out that she was developmentally disabled. Now, at 21, she is much like a nine year old. She has just graduated from Myrtle Beach High School, and I’m very proud of her. She is the sweetest, most loving person you have ever met!

What do you do for fun and relaxation?

I enjoy doing things for others, and that’s how I relax. I love to cook for other people, and I am very meticulous about keeping my house clean. For fun, I work out. I go to the gym seven days a week most of the time. If it wasn’t for Nancy and my other friends, I would not have made it. With the help of my friends, and God, I have overcome a life-threatening eating disorder. I know I am blessed!